Today, i will talk about the topic Love.

You know you're in love when u constantly remember the person's face and smile on ur mind and when u think "OMG, his smile is so cutee!"Sometimes,i really wish i had a boyfriend whenever i came upon couples behaving lovey-dovey.But it's just NOT so simple.There are just too many things weighing on my mind and many considerations too.Besides, im definitely incapable of coping with studies and my commitments.

So, what's the difference between infatuation, crush and yr true love? Do you know? True love is hard to define and even hard to come by.It's actually interesting to see how ppl see these terms.So here are some quotes from others about THEIR definition of a crush/infatuation and real love:

"The simple answer is, you just do! It's like no other feeling you have ever experienced. You can't stop thinking about the person; your heart skips a beat every time you see them. You don't care about anything else, and would do anything in the world for that person. You click on every level: hobbies, personality, likes, dislikes. It's the most amazing feeling in the world! I don't believe there is such a thing as love at first sight. I think there is attraction at first sight but you truly have to know a person to fall in love with them. That is the difference between love and a crush. Chances are if you are infatuated with someone or have a crush on them you don't really know that person and the street is one way (you have feelings but they don't feel the same). True love is a two-way street -- the other person feels the same way about you as you feel about them." (Beth, 30)

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"When you are in love you will just know it. There is no formula or logic to love. You just feel it in your heart, your mind, and your soul. The feeling is something you can't describe but can arise at any moment, triggered by a memory, a word or a thought of that special person. The difference between a crush/infatuation and real love is that a crush is someone you may forget about during the course of a day/week/month. Someone you may think of a few moments from time-to-time that you can do fun things with such as dates, dinner, and movies. A real love is someone that you cannot live without, someone who is constantly on your mind, day in and day out. It's someone you can't wait to talk to next. Someone who you can't wait to see for whatever reason!" (Michael, 45)

"I know I am in love with someone when I cannot control my feelings. When I cannot stop thinking of her -- then I know I feel love. If it is a crush or infatuation, then I know I can shut her off and think of someone else; even plan a date with another for a later time. But, if I cannot do that and do not want to see anyone else, continue to think of her all day into the night, look forward to seeing her again and put aside all others, I am in love. It has been wonderful when I have felt that way. I have had many a crush, but have been in love only a few times to the point of forsaking all others, including friends, to be with her." (Rick, 50)

So, now, do u have a better understanding of the terms? Hope you do:D

And there's the ideal criteria for ur ideal partner and we girls nowadays based it on the recent F4 Boys-over-flower show, all our prince-charming!:D

However,Nobody is perfect in this world.But at least to me, dat special someone must not spout vulgarities all the time and unnecessarily!which i apparrently detest,(okay,my father is a perfect eg lol, spouting vulgarities all the time in hokkien!it just shows how uncouth and ill-mannered you are!), and he must be sensitive to ur needs and feelings most importantly!

It's actually better to be single right now:) haha.At least, you dun have to ever worry about having several crushes and not being faithful to ur partner.haha=D

I shall post some cute and nice pics when blogger is back to normal,apparently, i cannt upload any pics now=x

jiayous 9:33 PM